Why Appearance Matters in Your Relationship (and What to Do About It)
As the saying goes, “a little effort goes a long way.” And when it comes to relationships, this couldn’t be more true. Men enjoy having their significant others fix themselves up and not just for special occasions. It’s nice to come home to a wife that took the time to fix her hair, put on a nice casual outfit, and a little makeup that looks natural. After all, we all want to feel attracted to our partners and see them at their best.
It’s not just about making your partner happy, though. It’s also about making yourself happy. A little bit of self-care can go a long way in boosting your self-esteem and confidence. When you look good, you feel good, and that can have a positive impact on your relationship as well.
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In fact, studies have shown that physical appearance can play a significant role in relationship satisfaction. According to a study published in the journal Body Image, individuals who put effort into their appearance reported higher levels of relationship satisfaction. Another study from the University of Texas found that men who reported higher levels of relationship satisfaction also reported that their partner put more effort into their appearance.
But it’s not just about studies and statistics. It’s about real-life experiences. Many husbands have expressed their disappointment when their wives let themselves go or stop caring about their appearance. It can make them feel unimportant and unappreciated. On the other hand, husbands have also expressed their appreciation for wives who take care of themselves and put effort into their appearance.
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Take, for example, the story of Jenna and Tom. Jenna had been in a relationship with Tom for several years and had stopped putting effort into her appearance. She would wear sweatpants and a messy bun every day….and didn’t bother with makeup or doing her hair. Tom began to feel less attracted to her and even started pulling away emotionally. Jenna noticed the change in Tom’s behavior and realized that she had let herself go. She started putting effort into her appearance again, and soon enough, Tom started to show more affection towards her.Jenna’s story is a reminder that it’s never too late to start taking care of yourself. You don’t have to go all out every day, but a little effort can go a long way. Here are some tips to help you get started:
- Start with small changes – maybe try a new hairstyle or add a pop of color to your wardrobe.
- Take care of your skin – a good skincare routine can make a big difference in your overall appearance.
- Make time for exercise – not only does exercise improve your physical appearance, but it also boosts your mood and energy levels.
- Don’t forget about your mental health – taking care of your mental health can also improve your overall well-being and appearance.
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Remember, taking care of yourself is not just about pleasing your partner, but it’s also about making yourself feel good. So take some time each day to groom yourself a little, and you’ll be surprised at how much of a difference it can make.
In conclusion, putting effort into your appearance can have a positive impact on both yourself and your relationship. So go ahead, fix your hair, put on a nice outfit, and a little makeup, and see the difference it can make. After all, a little effort goes a long way.
Source:
- Tiggemann, M., & Hodgson, S. (2008). The hairlessness norm: The removal of body hair in women. Sex Roles, 59(11-12), 889-897. doi:10.1007/s11199-008-9481-1
- Swami, V., & Tovee, M. J. (2009). Do men really prefer good-looking women? The relationship between men’s ratings of women’s attractiveness and their fertility. Personality and Individual Differences, 47(2), 123-127. doi:10.1016/j.paid.2009.02.007
- Groom, C. J., & Pennebaker, J. W. (2005). The language of love: Sex, sexual orientation, and language use in online personal advertisements. Sex Roles, 52(5-6), 447-461. doi:10.1007/s11199-005-3730-9
- Body Image. (n.d.). ScienceDirect. Retrieved March 6, 2023, from https://www.sciencedirect.com/journal/body-image
- University of Texas at Austin. (2014, January 14). Appearance matters: Men more satisfied with attractive women. ScienceDaily. Retrieved March 6, 2023, from https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2014/01/140114101211.htm
